I Remember My First Painful Breakup [Painful Breakups]

I wasn't sure if we had broken up or not. He wouldn't reply to my texts for weeks and when he finally did everything was normal. Until one night, we hadn't talked for awhile so I checked his Instagram to see if maybe he posted on there. He hadn't but what he did have was a girls name followed by a date in his bio.

I had no idea what to think. Was he cheating on me? Did we break up? Or is this just a misunderstanding? The next day I had met up with my closest cousin and told her everything. She decided to take the initiative and message him through Instagram. She asked him who the girl was and why he was ignoring me. When he got the message he instantly texted me apologizing. He said he had broken up with me a couple months before, through a message on Instagram. I had never gotten that "message" so I wasn't sure if I should believe him or not. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and forgave him but stopped talking to him until he started texting me again.

I fell back into his trap and I thought I was the only one for him. We would talk about a future and he even mentioned marriage. But then I found out he was still with the same girl from before. I had enough and left him for good.

And from that horrible heartbreak came a beautiful relationship with my current boyfriend. I now truly know what love is.