As much as I've sympathized with people whose SOs cheated on them,

I'll never be able to put myself in the headspace of someone who's upset at their SO for cheating. Like it makes sense on a conceptual, intellectual level -- they lied to you and maybe you feel like you're not special to them anymore or something, sure. But it's like, deeper than that I'll never get that emotional sense of why it hurts people, you know? It's weird.

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hotarabgirl · 22-25, F

i was just sad bc i was stupid enough to trust someone at all

twiigss · M

@hotarabgirl It's fine to put trust in someone you are with, what matter is that person doesn't betray that trust. There are nice people out there who are honest and good hearted, people who wouldn't ever break trust with another.