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I Am Going to Say Something Controversial

Giving handouts to homeless people, either individually or as part of a government program, doesn't work. The only (good) thing that you accomplish by giving money to homeless people is making yourself feel better. It doesn't actually help them - it hurts them.

I was talking to someone on here earlier today, and we got into a debate on government programs for helping homeless people, and on the idea of creating a system where everyone is efficiently provided with what they need. This is what I came up with:

I disagree that we humans are capable of making efficient systems by which we can provide those things to everyone. Individually, many of us are capable of a great deal of intelligence and goodness, not to mention efficiency. But groups are, by their very nature, selfish, self serving, stupid, and narcissistic. I would have to write a lot of pages to explain why, but that's a bit much for a post like this, so I'll just say that history has shown us with utter consistency that every socialist or communist system that has been applied to any very-large group of people (like nations) has failed utterly - Both because centralizing distribution of goods (and other forms of power) inevitably draws the most evil, power hungry people to positions of power, and because it creates a nation of dependents who feel entitled to be taken care of no matter what. Some individuals will use the system the way it's intended, of course, but society as a whole will always erode in the direction of least resistance.

You're right that fulfilling Mazlow's first need (food, water, shelter, etc - the basic physical needs) for people opens the door to fulfilling all their other needs - but you're forgetting that with all of the government assistance programs available, very few homeless people actually need to be homeless. Medicare, Medicade, SSI and SSD (which applies even if they're mentally or physically broken), food stamps, assisted housing, free job search training and free interview clothes (A program I've partaken in myself - they literally give you 3 suits, 3 shirts, 3 pants - 3 full outfits for any and all job needs) - almost any homeless person who isn't mentally defective CAN get off the streets, either by getting a job or by being dependent on government handouts. And even some that are pretty screwy in the head can get SSD, which is enough to live on in many areas.

By and large, the people who stay homeless don't do it because they don't have a choice - they do it because they don't want to, most commonly because their parents had dependency issues (ie: they either wanted to be dependent on their kid, or they wanted their kid to be dependent on them, and either way they taught their kid to never, ever build a life outside the house on fear of terrible emotional or even sometimes physical retaliation, so now the kid is consciously or unconsciously terrified of getting a job or finding a home or doing anything else that would build their life. They may very well want to get a job and a house and start a family - but they want to avoid building a life more). Every dollar you give them just enables them to keep doing it.

So as nice and idealistic as it looks on paper - the reality of historically consistent evidence - not to mention historically proven human nature - is that to-each-according-to-their-need doesn't work.
SW-User
Compassion is a wonderful virtue, but I would only give them some food, blankets, and anything that would help them out in the basic needs area. I will not help anyone drink or drug themselves to death. I would not feel meeting basic human needs is enabling them.
If they earn a bit of money from work and chose to drink that is their choice they earned that money, but I earned mine, too.
I am very compassionate towards people and I do not look down on people because of their problems, but I won't enable them to harm themselves, either.
BlueDiver · 36-40, M
I feel the same way - I do think that food and blankets technically enable them to keep living on the streets instead of getting jobs or getting on SSI/SSD/Foodstamps/etc, just like money does, but I agree that, come on, it's friggin food. I have no problem with that level of compassion. I just think that most people, both individually and especially in terms of the government, take it way too far and focus way too much on that side of things.
Hell! I know a lot of them drink. So what? I kick down when I can. If I were in their shoes, I wouldn{t want someone to come up and give me psychobabble and platitudes. I{d want a frickin drink too! I hope no one listens to you.
BlueDiver · 36-40, M
They might not want "psychobabble and platitudes" (which is in no way what I'm talking about giving them), but what they want and what they need are two very different things. If they had any ability or willingness to get themselves what they actually need, then they wouldn't be on the streets in the first place.
Peaches · F
@puck, my friend stopped drinking years ago. One day along side of the road he saw a man holding up a sign that said, "I NEED A BEER!" Because he was so honest, he gave him five dollars.🤑
Gigi74 · 46-50, F
I give because I want to not because it makes me feel good... I donate because I'm able to and don't give it a second thought.... I understand what you're saying but I'm not going to judge people unless I walked in their shoes.... I'm not a professional physiologist to write about people's behaviours or patterns ..... your view is interesting though ...
QueenOfSmiles · 46-50, F
tynamite · 31-35, M
jeancolby · 31-35, F
I don't need to give money to anyone to make me feel good. I feel good regardless.

 
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