I get that, I always lived in these small towns and even when I came out in college the scene's just kinda "discrete." Plus I'm that kinda kid that no one expected to be gay... so that's always fun. But trust me, when you look around the world there's a ton of cool guys. Just give it time :D
Hahaha XD I had the same problem. I was in love with one my friends. Let's just say, he didn't feel the same. Lol but good luck my friend, you'll find someone some day.