Guys. I have an odd problem IRL (as usual). People blush when they see me. They seem to become depressed from always blushing. What should I do?

We are talking both men and women. They look completely depressed and angry as if they are blaming ME for constantly making them blush simply by existing...
So now my question is:

If I meet a girl and she begins to turn extreeemely red from talking to me, then, what's the nicest thing I can do for her? What would you have wanted me to do if you were her?

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REMsleep · 41-45, F

Your post makes no sense to me

noswimmingpool · 26-30, M

@REMsleep How come?

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@noswimmingpool Why would loads of men and women randomly blush when seeing you. Why would you care. Are you a troll?

noswimmingpool · 26-30, M

@REMsleep I am one of those rarely overly attractive people. Have you ever seen that guy Omar who was banned from Saudi Arabia for being too hot? As you can tell, he is above the average hot level. The same thing applies to me. This makes people blush from me. I don't mean to brag. I am not a troll. I have this real problem IRL. Just like you, I am "just a regular person" who happened to be blessed with a pretty face.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@noswimmingpool OMG get over yourself dude. Who cares. We are all dealt a certain hand in life. Like hardly any attractive person would think like this.
Why would people who are not even attracted to your gender blush at you. I don't believe that.
You are sounding conceited.
Who cares if people find you attractive. Its a huge bonus in life.
Use it and enjoy your life.
We all have our cross to bear and being ugly is a heavier burden so suck it up buttercup and stop asking silly questions.

noswimmingpool · 26-30, M

@REMsleep I know that it seems like I am full of myself. But I am speaking from my heart and not to brag.

People are literally always blushing whenever I enter a room. It's been this way since I hit puberty.

The problem is that they become angry with me. As if they want me to leave. Some people even start to "run" from me whenever the blush appears on their face so that I shouldn't see their blush. This causes me to have trouble connecting with people. It's a huge negativity. So please, be serious and give me advice.

If you blushed at me, what would you have wanted me to do?

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@noswimmingpool I don't know if you live in an alien repressed dark hole but thats not how life works where I am from so I can't say.
I don't blush at people since Im no longer a teen.
I am capable of continuing on with my activities normally as are most people that I have ever met.
If someone were that attractive I would not run or hide.
I don't understand this concern.

noswimmingpool · 26-30, M

@REMsleep I look very similar to that guy Omar who was banned from Saudi Arabia for being too attractive. Google his name. I have a similar face to him... This seems to make both men and women blush. All I did was to enter the room. I also look very similar to THIS guy from ca 1989 on these pictures (I noticed this by a coincidence). I look like a hybrid of Omar and this guy:
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So do you see my problem? Their faces are feminine but still masculine. It seems to make people confused and they blush.