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I Accept Responsibility For My Own Actions

Not really sure where I want to put this, but I guess this works.

Before I start, anyone who reads this should know I have a great relationship with my boyfriend. I am not bashing him here or calling him abusive. I just feel like I should document this somewhere..

Tonight we were having a good time together. We were in the car, sitting in line. I was talking and he placed his finger between my teeth, being silly. I bit down. I didn't think I bit him that hard, but I must have bit him pretty hard because he punched my forearm really hard and started shouting all kinds of obscenities at me. Mind you, I know it wasn't with all of his force, but it did really hurt! And I know that my bite really hurt him. So we're equally to blame. But still, his reaction made me uncomfortable. My arm is fine. Not even going to bruise or anything. It was just unpleasant....
I've been with him 5 years and pissed him off a variety of times. He's never hit me, walls, or anything else. He's not abusive. Trust me, if he'd intended to hurt me he would've. The guy is pure muscle 馃槣 I was just documenting the anger for him to work on it. He said his first instinct was to punch me in the fac e when I bit him so, there was restraint there at least. And let's not forget that I didn't mean to bit me him hard. I was joking. He just reacted.
shadowplay22-25, M
what will happen if you really piss him off ? that's the real question
If he is that quick to retaliate with physical force such as he demonstrated, then I would watch out. Or rather, I would get out of the relationship. As he will lose his temper sometime for a more serious issue- and perhaps one again you both were to fault for for, But this time, it may cause you serious bodily injury. You could wind up in the hospital-and with possible internal injuries or needing stitches.
Eddiesolds61-69, M
That doesn't sound abusive to me.I know I've never called a wife or girlfriend bad names when she made me mad.you say it wasn't coming across with force.just don't bite him like that again.lol Have a nice day!
SW-User
is he braindead? of course you didn't do it on purpose and you are woman, he should know that he can't do that to you. I know you love him but he's such a fucking moron sometimes
iRant4U56-60, M
I wouldn't take it to heart. As you said, it was just a reaction. Now you know not to bite him. Imagine if it weren't his finger! 馃槈

 
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