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I do judge sometimes and don't hide it. [I DO Judge People]

Please don't tell me you don't judge.We as a human judge and that's how we are built internally.Irony is that those who say I don't judge and you can't judge others are the ones who judge more,imo.
Only think you have to keep in mind is
[i][b]'Your judgement can't be their choice and your opinions are not their options'.[/b][/i]
Judging is not bad but let it not be toxic and bad.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
Not every situation requires your opinion. I may have judgements about things but it's more about me than the subject being judged. I prefer to be kind where possible.
iamelijah · 26-30, M
I do have some judgments towards people but mostly I tried to dismiss it. I do not want the stereotypes clouding my judgment.
But, sometimes apparently those stereotypes kinda true. Even so, I tried not to conclude this as the whole groups of people. Instead, I am more aware how they behave and it giving me second thought when trusting someone.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Just as not everything anyone says is true. So is not everything anyone says is not true.

So to say to that judging is bad or not bad is a good thing is equally wrong.

Not being toxic judgement is also opinionated. Accepting that you will be judged is life. Whether it's toxic or not.

Believe me I know I am judged. Even toxically judge.

I accept it though! I know we are human. Yet I do attempt to try not to judge. Because I know I don't know everything.
conscienceforsale · 41-45, M
Absolutely. We all judge. It is how we prepare ourselves to pursue a relationship with that person. Any relationship- Business, marital, friendship, political. It could be anything. What matters is how we respond to that judgement. Are we going to treat that person wrongly because of who they are? How necessary is it to treat them the way they get treated by you, etc...
Pudhumanithan · 70-79, M
We are basically social animals. We can't live without it. Judging only decides those relationships. But as you said it should not be toxic.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
The irony of people judging those for being judgements :). I try not to judge too frequently; it weighs too much to carry much around. But at some points one must.
Ingwe · F
good judgement is imperative
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Loveandsex123 So what do you think of Jason Momoa & Would You Do Him

 
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