I only came here to express the idea that I used to buy into this Bullshit New Age Idea about romantic relationships and then I started to read about how such a belief would actually effect my Romantic experience and I began to question everything I had sort of flirted with as far as an Idea is concerned.
I'd love it if my Twin flame was really out there but to be honest I feel like people grow on me the same way Songs do occasionally. You know sometimes there's a song you Viscerally hate the first time you hear it nut you end up being exposed so many times eventually you start to enjoy it?
I've gone through that and it's the same with people. I've realized in the due course of time the Flawless Perfect Romantic relationship and lover is just not out there and that even the most wonderful partner I've ever- She's still got flaws.
Lyssa's Paranoid. perhaps with good cause but...
as much as it's felt like coming home and Kismet with her it's not. We made that possible with work.
In truth I've always been sort of annoyed by women with an indirect communication style but somehow I ended up with one and am quiet happy.
anyways it became very all or nothing after awhile and so I'm basically firmly in the Romantic Growth rather than Destiny camp.
I don't want to change relationships like I do pairs of socks hunting the perfect one I don't want to feel like it's Morally OKAY to GHOST somebody just because it's not going to work out.
I don't want to even pretend I'm psychic enough to KNOW it won't work out.