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I Am a Good Listener

They Don't Lie When They Say Listening... Is A Skill...... I always toke it for granted when I got told that I'm a good listener. I always thought it was the type of comment talkative (mainly extroverts) people gave to people like me (reserved, introverted). Today really made me realize that a very selected amount of people are really good at listening and its mostly your introverts. Extroverts (sorry for this) but you people need to stop talking so much and just take a second to listen (this doesn't apply to all extroverts). You'll be shocked at how much it difference it makes when you trully listen to other people. Its the reason why people in my school, varsity and family environment trust so much. I listen and think about what you're saying to me. Yes... introverts are slow in conversations but its because we think about what we say. We say things that actually mean something, and If you patient enough you'll find out interesting things about us. So people just take a second and listen, you'll be amazed at the difference it makes... :)
Enebryum
I am introverted myself and I agree that people like us are really good at listening rather than talking.
I find that people like talking to me because I actually listen to what they say rather than just blabbing about my own problems or thoughts.
Being a good listener and actually taking into account what someone else is saying is definitely a good personality trait to have :)
MisfitTreasure · 26-30, M
I know... :) And i'll always take being 'socially awkward' anyday over being a very talkative person who hardly listens and doesn't take into account what you just said.
I think it helps people like us to have a closer relationship with someone, than most people...

 
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