I Am In a Long Distance Relationship

Girlwithsilverheart Sunscape's question was because "get off" also has a sexual meaning...

It does sound like it's not working well and maybe you should look for someone else... maybe short distance this time!

@cinnamon I don't know. This long distance relationship is not going too well. My boyfriend is too much worried about his work that he don't have time for me. I know it. But I get paranoid and fights with him. I can't hurt him anymore.

Lol Cinnamon, yes but I also wanted clarity before answering.

A very good question indeed.

LDR are never easy. My first one was 1990. He was stationed in Germany. No internet, overseas calls were outrageous so letter writing pretty much.

Perhaps take a few steps back , not walk away but step back and ask yourself how is this serving you in your life and his.

Oh and the stepping back part. What I've found is one can't really step until they are ready. You will just know. Good luck.

@tabatha We have been together for almost 2 years. After a year of relationship, I got a job and moved away. There has been nothing wrong. Recently, I asked him to meet me where I live now. But he said he can't. And that's how the fight started. We haven't spoken for a day now. I don't know what to do. He does loves me. But he's just not ready for a relationship. I tried to break up with him. But I found myself going back to him. Maybe I should wait until he's ready?

Why do you think you keep hurting them?

You may be too hard on yourself

If you look at it from a rational point of view, theres no point to be with someone if you are for the nost part...unhappy.

It hurts so bad...yeah...but if love is true...you can cross anybarriers..:)

Do you mean break it off?

@sun yes.