I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving Relationship

Men or most of them are "fixers".

Is it fixable (whatever the problem is or his worry)? DO it!
If you can´t or still don´t know how, go to sleep.

What they do not find useful is "to talk about" if not related to "fix it".
Talking do not "solve" outside the mind.
So, it neither calm emotions if abstract form doing….

Then, why not to sleep?

Maybe if he tells you what is happening, you will feel better.
And he should do it for YOU.
But do not expect that this will make HIM feel better.
If you say that he should, he will feel dimissed.
And rightly so.

I think its a man thing..its how they deal with a lot of turmoil

So many questions lol. I don't know your situation, but I know sometimes people need to be alone. What could you do to entertain yourself or make yourself feel better? I feel better when I'm doing something productive for myself. Do you have hobbies?

My father-in law used to go to bed at that time, or even earlier. He would then get up for a while in the middle of the night, go back to bed, then be up again at 5 a.m. and stay up for the rest of the day. Some people just have weird sleeping patterns.

By the way, why is it considered lazy to sleep late in the morning, but not to go to bed early?

He's probably just tired or needs time alone after a long stressful day.

After work I wouldn't mind doing that once in a while.

Have you some clue of why this?

It sounds like something he's not willing to tell the truth about - even to himself.

You don't like him to lie down....correct?

My wife is big on early bed times too.

Men tend to internalize whatever is going on. I totally understand, I would wonder too.

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