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When to take her back???

I could make a long thing of this but instead, I will get right to it and you guys tell me what you think. To make a long story short about ten years ago I was with a woman and loved her and she loved me but like all relationships, things got complex people got involved in our relationship one thing lead to another and she cheated on me. People say once a cheater always a cheater but I look at this and I think to myself we were young still trying to figure the world out and I have cheated before myself not on her though and I have been able to be in serious relationships. I am willing to give her another chance but we have to have a serious talk about her behavior in the past and it seems like shes not willing to do that. 90% of you would say don't get back to her so what I did listen to the 10% that would say give her another chance and we all agreed that this can be fixed but she has to be able to talk about it like an adult.
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[quote]we have to have a serious talk about her behavior in the past and it seems like shes not willing to do that.[/quote]

I wouldn鈥檛 red flags 馃毄 right there.
It's sad to say, I am pretty sure [@1042,Fairydust] is right.
Picklebobble256-60, M
Thing is if this is still an issue after ten years of being apart and she still refuses to be honest about the why鈥檚 of it at the time, you have no basis for truth or trust ten years later !

None of us is the same person we were then.
Except this girl it seems
bushi202031-35, M
[@448576,Picklebobble2] You said it perfectly. All she has to do is show some maturity and we could work this out but shes not willing to do that.
I've seen this happen all too many times. Not to me mind you, but if she's unwilling to talk about it she might not have changed and might not see anything wrong with her behavior.
Iamonfire66631-35, F
I don鈥檛 think once a cheater, always a cheater is always true. It鈥檚 a choice you need to make and decide if you are okay with taking the risk.

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