Do we shape our thoughts or Our thoughts shape us ? I have been asking myself this question and have discussed it with few people , and After hearing some opinions and read some other opinions talking about that topic I came to conclusion that helped me to find the answer . We are the boss , we are the entity , we are the spirit , the source, the energy, so we have a mind . Out minds are like thought factory , we command our mind to generate thoughts. Our thoughts are produced via our values , what we think is valuable to us , so in order or priory .. values, choice , thoughts , believes , when one continuous used the same habited thoughts , eventually the thought becomes the entity and uses the mind , and both empower each other .