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I Love Christmas

I think a lot of people in life don't ever get the soul connection. They tend to use people as disposable items. Often people become used as a punching bag or maybe just as a pillow or a shoulder to cry on. Over time miscommunication, indifference and a lack of empathy destroys friendships. Some either make the effort and fight for a connection and friend or they don't.

People who genuinely care, these people make/take the time and put in the effort to nurture a friendship and soul connection. Others are content to walk away and move on to the next new thing or person which will comfort them and give credence to their existence.

The great thing about life is we can either be genuine or become phonies. The choice we make has huge consequences on our souls. Choose wisely what bridges you burn down without care, hurting people and moving on go hand and hand. People are not disposable items many make them out to be.

I just realized I put this under the group I like Christmas, oh well my mistake lol :) . Should have been placed in random thoughts or I philosophize... :)
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
Very well written. I agree. I do attempt to make the time and put effort into my friendships/relationships.
I may not contact each friend daily due to work, etc. But, that does not mean I ever stop thinking about them. I have found that too many easily walk away. No, we are not disposable. Sadly, too many do treat others as if they are.
I really do try, but sometimes a person becomes tired of being the one putting in all the effort. At some point, when I realize stupidly that I am the one who keeps trying, while the other person is probably laughing since I put so much of me out there...well, I find that then, I give up and walk away.
therighttothink50 · 56-60, M
@JerseyGal I understand, just taking the time to read what friends write here and vice verse is a good thing. Ty for reading my friend :)
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
@therighttothink50 Yes, it is nice, I agree. You're very welcome, my friend. 🙂
SW-User
So true, we should all spend a little extra time with each other and really listen. Costs nothing. ❤️
Good job I read this in right season... Merry Christmas..
therighttothink50 · 56-60, M
@Soossie Merry Christmas.
Paliglass · 41-45, F
I know. I like making soul connection. It hurts when broken.
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Some people plant flowers, and some people pick them. 🌻🌼
SW-User
So true! Too many are only for self and what you can do for them...
It's true no matter what group it under
OceanRoses · F
♥We are proof friends can be :) Genuine!

 
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