Life being unfair, doesn’t discriminate between good or bad bad people

This is from a friend: Take your time. There is no need to hurry. Love is out there. I promise you. I was with & lived together for 16 months prior to marriage. I took a leap of faith and I proposed after 3 months. You know the rest of the story. I don't want to bore everyone else. I hope you don't get made at me. I'm only trying to help. Not trying to interfere. You know I'm always here for you, as a soundboard or whatever. Good luck.

Same answer, up above