How much of your problems are due to your mother or father?

Well. I am at the age where I can no longer blame them. But the foundation of most of my problems began with them. I've just not been successfully able to reverse all of it.

None. I take responsibility for my problems. They did the best they could. I look at their parents and I am amazed my parents survived.

Unfortunately I would say 80% and while I don't blame them for being humans and not being perfect, just like knowing that I must mold myself in a good image and that I am far from a perfect child... their choices left me emotionally traumtized which really slows dowm the process of me becoming a good and fuctional human being.

It requires work on yourself and on your parents because you love them and want to help them but you mustn't forget about yourself. Idk

A lot of the things I struggle with today are a direct result of my father's actions ... Others my mom left behind with me to deal with without her

None. If I had followed their advice I wouldn’t have got into troubles at all!