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Why is the art of conversation lost on some people?

When I’m trying to get to know a new guy, it’s always me who ends up asking a lot of questions to get to know them. Yet there’s no back & forth where they ask me questions to get to know me. 🤷🏻‍♀️It’s a turn off, so future conversations rarely occur.
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Its just the people you're talking to possibly? I seem to have convos that seems like minutes but actually last hours and hours. I can assure you that the lack of conversation skills can go both ways here unfortunately lol
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@Complexconfessions
Yet your intro on yr page says you are antisocial and we shouldnt message you!!
@RubySoo That doesn't mean I can't have those conversation though, I just chose not to accept messages for awhile before I took my little break. I actually need to change that now that you mention it lol
marsbar · F
@Complexconfessions Oh for sure it goes both ways.

I’m on dating apps, so if a guy messages me, & I decide to give it a try, I would hope that the text convo is at least engaging. Nothing will progress at that point if it isn’t.
@marsbar I know all about how that is, I tried a few of them too and I feel like there's a reason alot of those people are still single lol I gave up on all that shit and decided it was a huge waste of my time. I'd find either the super desperate ones who will take anyone or the ones who just want to fuck when their husbands or boyfriends aren't around 🤦🏼‍♂️
@RubySoo there, fixed it 😂😂
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@Complexconfessions good man x
marsbar · F
@Complexconfessions Yes, lots of them are just interested in sex, especially the younger ones.

So I’m trying to talk to these men my age & older since they’re the ones who want to be in more serious relationships, but their conversation skills suck big time! Then don’t message me at all! 😅😅
@marsbar Yeah but not all the younger guys are like that. Probably most of them though lol I found it's like pulling teeth trying to get alot of the women my age and older women talking on those apps lol
marsbar · F
@Complexconfessions Yes, I know. I’ve had quite a lot of experience with younger guys. Some definitely can engage in conversation.
@marsbar probably can't get some to shut up as well 😂
marsbar · F
@Complexconfessions Yes, one in particular comes to mind. Lol