Give example of what is child abuse in your opinion.

Anything involving intentionally hurting a child

Hitting,corporal punishment, insulting, constant criticism, abuse tactics like gaslighting, inconsistent affection, isolation, public humiliation/shaming (not like being scolded in public but like forcing them to hold a sign on a corner or cutting their hair and putting it on social media, etc.) obv. witholding or refusal of necessities like medical care, including mental health care if they need it. Conversion therapy (and there are these 'camps' I've heard of where some Christian families send their 'rebellious' children, that withold things like education, food, water, sunlight, bathing, etc. and sometimes involve corporal punishment). Bullying, sexual abuse, ABA therapy, certain attachment therapies including Coercive Restraint therapy, psychiatric abuse, psychological abuse, emotional abuse, etc.

My aunt forced me to kiss her tummy for 7 long years

Dragging them by the hair, kicking them, telling them they're ugly and dumb and worthless.

Everything I had.

Wrong.