Can 'certain' people bring bad spirits into your home?
I just did a spiritual cleansing in my home. It feels so great in here. So much positive spiritual energy.
36-40, M
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REMsleep · 41-45, F
Im not sure that I believe the same way that you do but yes people can bring in their own bad evil vibes and especially if they leave bad stuff in your home. Objects that carry their devious intentions.
Money, porn, bad food, spirits( drink) or other mind altering substances. Even literature. Becareful what people bring into your house.
Money, porn, bad food, spirits( drink) or other mind altering substances. Even literature. Becareful what people bring into your house.
Carazaa · F
@REMsleep Thanks, Yes we may be disagreeing a little, but that's ok. I do believe in demons and objects that are cursed by God, and some people also have demons. However regardless of any demon possessed people, we should love everyone because the battle is between angels not people God says..
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Carazaa Oh yes. I love all people but I have some family that I do not speak to. Thats an important question. What does it mean to love?
Some evil people that love murder are sitting in prison. Do you love them? I assume so but what does that really look like? Would you buy their prison artwork to display in your home?
Some evil people that love murder are sitting in prison. Do you love them? I assume so but what does that really look like? Would you buy their prison artwork to display in your home?
LoveTriumphsOverHate · 36-40, M
@REMsleep I love them but they are an endangerment to society and once someone has violated the social contract, they have to serve their time or prove they can be trusted back into society. I've been around drug dealers and criminals who do not give a shit how they make their money. They would just as soon distribute crack to your children or my 10 year old if given the opportunity. Not many people take into consideration the anguish such criminals create until they have been a victim, such as the mom who advocated against capital punishment but revised her position once her own son was brutally and viciously murdered (true story).
Carazaa · F
@LoveTriumphsOverHate Sorry if you have been seeing horrors in society! Very sorry!
LoveTriumphsOverHate · 36-40, M
@Carazaa I don't like to revisit my past. I often cry inside when I think about it. Anyone can change and I do believe they deserve a second chance. Some of them deserve to be happy... Prison shouldn't be hell. Many criminals and dealers are not terrible people, they just need some direction.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@LoveTriumphsOverHate @Carazaa Well my question was in regards to situations that strongly affect you personally such as someone directly in your life. The following is a totally made up senario but the context is similar to something I've experienced.
Lets say that you knew a nice guy since you were both kids but he developed a drug habit and one day during his early 20s he came over and brutally beat and raped your mom while looking for money to the point she almost died. She was in the ICU for 2 weeks. Your mom was like his mom too since she practically raised him also.
Then he went to prison for 10 years and now got out.
Your mom forgave him and spoke to him while in prison. You forgave him but didn't speak to him ever.
The whole family is slowly helping him get his life back together. Various people are accepting him back into their life.
[b]Is it unloving to not want to speak to him? Is it wrong to avoid him? I believe that you can forgive but not forget.
What he did was horrible and I don't want this person in my life at all. I even had anger that the family is far too accep[/b]ting when he never even apologized and in trial it came out that he also raped another girl when we were younger that we never knew about. He wasn't even on hard drugs back then during the first rape allegation.
Thoughts?
Lets say that you knew a nice guy since you were both kids but he developed a drug habit and one day during his early 20s he came over and brutally beat and raped your mom while looking for money to the point she almost died. She was in the ICU for 2 weeks. Your mom was like his mom too since she practically raised him also.
Then he went to prison for 10 years and now got out.
Your mom forgave him and spoke to him while in prison. You forgave him but didn't speak to him ever.
The whole family is slowly helping him get his life back together. Various people are accepting him back into their life.
[b]Is it unloving to not want to speak to him? Is it wrong to avoid him? I believe that you can forgive but not forget.
What he did was horrible and I don't want this person in my life at all. I even had anger that the family is far too accep[/b]ting when he never even apologized and in trial it came out that he also raped another girl when we were younger that we never knew about. He wasn't even on hard drugs back then during the first rape allegation.
Thoughts?
LoveTriumphsOverHate · 36-40, M
@REMsleep Heavens no, it wouldn't be wrong to avoid that person. Forgiveness doesn't necessitate reconciliation or trusting someone again. You're not obliged to trust him or speak to him. If he hasn't shown any remorse, why would you trust him?
If someone raped or molested a member of my family, I may forgive them but I definitely am not going to be cool with that person ever again. He can live his life because he served his time, but he can't come around my family. Given his history and mental state, it would be wise to keep your distance and be vigilant.
It's necessary for your mental health that you hold no malice. I get what you're saying about not forgetting. You can't forget a tragedy like that, but if you are allowing it to cause you any distress, you are still holding onto malice and you need to release it. This is just a suggestion but maybe you should tell him you forgive him or write a letter - it may help to relieve some anger.
If someone raped or molested a member of my family, I may forgive them but I definitely am not going to be cool with that person ever again. He can live his life because he served his time, but he can't come around my family. Given his history and mental state, it would be wise to keep your distance and be vigilant.
It's necessary for your mental health that you hold no malice. I get what you're saying about not forgetting. You can't forget a tragedy like that, but if you are allowing it to cause you any distress, you are still holding onto malice and you need to release it. This is just a suggestion but maybe you should tell him you forgive him or write a letter - it may help to relieve some anger.