Any one else getting sick of the constant self pity posts on here?

I keep seeing heartbreak and self harm posts and pity me posts ffs get a life people. SW is not the be all and end all of the world.people come here to have fun.not see this shit show every day 😒

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

The other night I freaked out on here from just this same topic. I have been tormented for about 2 years now on whether or not to stay. I notice that when I am here I can be dragged down deep and it sucks because I’m actually a pretty positive and silly person. I don’t want to admit this but I think I’ve outgrown the site. I’m ready to surround myself with likeminded people who aren’t sex shopping and looking to get over on people. I don’t want to pretend certain things are ok when they aren’t. I don’t want to be a therapist either. We just don’t have enough people here where people get lost in the mix and we meet new people here. There are some remarkable people here though that I enjoy talking to so I get sucked back in. They keep me here. I wish some of the great people would come back but wish them well and I admire their strength to get the hell out of here.

Deesa123 · F

@Keepitsimple you're right this place drains people.i dont think it's a great place to be anymore and I've noticed how nasty people can be to one another

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

When I am out in the real world I feel good as a person. I’m kind and smile and see the good side of things. People are good to each other. Here people get hurt easily, the text context gets lost, it’s so hard to trust people and believe people and it sucks. Not everybody here is trying to get over on people but we have to assume they are and make them work their ass off to prove they aren’t. It shouldn’t be like that. I know there are good people here, there has to be. I want there to be. @Deesa123

Magenta · F

@Keepitsimple I completely relate. When you've outgrown it, but can't seem to pull the plug.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@Magenta I will at some point. I’ve been in that cycle of “keep pushing through it”. I’m stubborn and hopeful and beat a dead horse but I’m tired. I have to break it off and find things that actually make me the best I can be.

Magenta · F

@Keepitsimple Same. 🤗