Getting ready to get a divorce.

I'm tired of trying. Everything is convenient for my spouse, but not for me. I don't even feel as though I am in a marriage or relationship. I'm sick not being a priority, I'm tired of the cycle, I'm ready to go.

Now, what is the process?

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uncalled4 · 56-60, M

I was done officially 16 years ago today. Be sure, beyond a shadow of a doubt, because it is an all-out war. There's money, time, lawyers, courts, paperwork(depositions), and a lot of heartbreak. The more money, real estate, and kids, the more it's going to be a huge pain in the ass.

You're going to have to get a lawyer and pay him a retainer first, then serve your spouse with papers after you file, then the gloves come off and you fight over everything and anything. It does not go quickly and is arduous, so be certain that there is no alternative.