Getting ready to get a divorce.

I'm tired of trying. Everything is convenient for my spouse, but not for me. I don't even feel as though I am in a marriage or relationship. I'm sick not being a priority, I'm tired of the cycle, I'm ready to go.

Now, what is the process?

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SW-User

First, you need to seek counseling. Don't just throw your marriage away without trying counseling. I can assure you, no marriage is perfect and the grass is never green.

Perhaps, divorce is imminent but I have talked to people who have been on the verge of divorce and went to counseling and they are happily married now. I have one friend who divorced his wife and now they are planning a wedding again.

I would suggest Christian marriage counseling.

Roach · F

@SW-User counseling will only be a possibility if he admits there's a problem

SW-User

@Roach Tell him that you want marriage counseling. Compel him.

SW-User

@Roach From your post, you obviously realize that your marriage isn't going to work in its current condition. You guys have been fighting the same fight over and over and over. try something new. Change the game on him.

Roach · F

@SW-User marriage isn't a game

SW-User

@Roach Is it a prison?

Roach · F

@SW-User it can feel that way, but no