Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

What’s a good way to get out of some plans with friends?

I just had a big fight with my husband and i don’t wanna go with him to see my friends tonight. It will not be right if i show up without him too. Give me a a reason to back out cause i’m just too angry to go. the event is something that can be rescheduled - just a visit.
Don't explain yourself. Just tell them you cannot make it tonight . You don't have to go on and on about an explanation. That should suffice because your feelings matter.
SW-User
You may cool down before this visit, otherwise, just call them and reschedule due to family problems.
TheIncredibleHulka · 31-35, F
Just don't receive their phones and play dead.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
i work with them so.... @TheIncredibleHulka
TheIncredibleHulka · 31-35, F
@DoubleRings I get you. Since you're feeling upset it's better to just avoid calls for the moment to save yourself from giving explanations to everyone. You can say you were really unwell and not in a position to receive calls once you cool down.
Doomflower · 36-40, M
SW-User
🤔
You're not feeling well, followed by tons of apologies and promise to meet soon...
You're busy stopping an alien invasion, with lots of "pew-pew" and explosion noises in the background...
“Not feeling well” would be accurate—you’re very upset. Or, that you’re “having to deal with family concerns and wouldn’t be good company” is also truthful while preserving your privacy.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
i did in fact say not feeling good. she accepted it - it’s true not only the way you said but i’ve been so stressed my stomach has been whacked and she knows this from the last few weeks

i could have also said family issues. i have those too even outside of my husband and it’s been really bad @bijouxbroussard

thanks for your help.
@DoubleRings You’re very welcome. Best wishes.
BlueRain · F
Say you have to wash your hair.
SW-User
Not feeling well
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
I am not feeling well, I hope we can get together again soon but I am going to have to cancel for tonight.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Could be feeling ill

 
Post Comment