What’s one quality a person can have that will instantly turn you anyway?
Not necessarily in a dating scenario. Just a quality that will make you lose interest in associating with a person. For me, there’s a lot of things that will make me lose interest. I don’t like smoking, partying, drug use, excessive drinking.. the list goes on. But those can change - you can quit bad habits. One thing that I cannot stand, that often seems engrained in one’s character, is arrogance. People who think they’re great, that they can do no wrong - especially when they aren’t even that good of a person - annoy me endlessly. I just cannot tolerate such a self-absorbed attitude. This is not to be confused with confidence, of course. If you’re good at something, you should be confident in yourself for it. But acting like the world revolves around you and you cannot fail isn’t confidence.