Do normal husbands and wives watch t.v. together, go out places, laugh, tell each other i love u, trust each other?

Yes, my husband and I do. - perhaps you and your wife can talk about the distance or the things in life that have taken you further from that place of love and togetherness. I wish you both the best. Communication is important, and if you listen, and share, even if it starts out slow in the beginning, I imagine that you two could rekindle your love for each other.