I lately feel like I lost all my friends in a time when I needed them the most cause they couldn't understand. Well in truth I isolated myself too in shock and no one came chasing my back. Then I noticed I was nothing to them except someone to hurl their frustrations on and other stuff. So I deleted them out of my life. How triple awesome is that? Now I live in my own head hoping to make new friends along the way keeping in mind it needs it's own time but I'm feeling impatient all the same.
I did the same at some point. It's just a part of growing up i guess, you become more of your true self as you find your own way though which I think is neccesary. You become independent of everybody and appreciate the friends you do make as they're far and few but special people as you've chosen them in particular.
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@Bebop That's also true and right. There's only one person I turned to after I deleted everyone. Fortunately he understood me, and so far it's the closest long distance friendship I have.
Those were never your friends, but you were theirs! A true friend will keep an eye on you, be there for you, if not, Then they simply want a piece of you! So, lesson learned? Now, you focus on you and your life, And when anyone comes along to friend you, put them in 'check' and test them once in a while. And never EVER give your all!
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@Hayman In a way it's good I threw everyone out in a panic rage. Because I'd never have done it. But yeah I kind of learnt my lesson but I still can't help feeling the loneliness sometimes. Especially in a fragile moment of my life but yeah you're right!
@SW-User So loneliness came to visit, it's not pleasant! Now You stand with your onlyness, So keep an eye on those who stands as you with similar interests and join the circle. Meanwhile, as a source of distraction from loneliness.. get creative, and busy, get your money right, stay healthy, stay safe!
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@Hayman But I am getting busy. As much as I can. Stuff just tends to get boring and I need to be careful as I'm experiencing frequent episodes of shortness of breath and chest pain. I'll try remember what you said though in times when things get a bit...overwhelming. You too stay safe and in good health thanks!
Sometimes when you are upset and isolate without telling anyone you need their support they assume you want to be by yourself and must want some space. Sometimes they have their own issues they are dealing with and have already stretched themselves too thin. Of course it could be they really are selfish and only care about themselves.
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@morrgin Nah. Since most of them ended up cursing at me in a time when I needed them the most I believe I was just "friends" with the wrong people. Unfortunately.
Don’t let those people get you down. The true friends will be there through everything, and they will always be few. They will be the ones picking you up when you’re down, the ones that leave you there aren’t worth a second thought.
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@DHggmu Very few picked me up. Last I was all bruised up with my back against the wall only family helped me out of it. So just because they care my struggle is stronger but worth it. I left those "friends" without the blink of an eye and never regretted it since. Sure im more lonely but youre never alone for too long unless you choose to be.
[c=#BF0080] I went EXACTLY through the same as you! but you know, its a beginning, not an end ☺️ I need good, supportive and kindhearted people in my life and you know, WE deserve it! ☺️💕[/c]
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we on sw are a family, we share the same soul, don't feel sad and worried
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@SW-User It's okay. I'm glad I have this place to be =) 🤗
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@SW-User 🤗
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don't feel sad. We on sw are a family. We share the same soul
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@SW-User Awww. Good thing I am still here some app I was on lately shut down adding to the list. Eh. But I still come here so its good :)
