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Do you see your parents as a positive influence ??

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No I didn't. But in an ironic way they were. Because they were so negative and neglectful and abusive It made me understand at a very young age what I NEVER wanted to be. And I never was :)
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Nope. I can’t even count her to be an ally.
Graylight · 51-55, F
I call the whole experience learning by contrast.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
My parents were horrible people. The positive influence they had on me is that I never married or had children.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@hunkalove Same here. I was not allowed to find a mate. Was yours by choice so as not to be like them? Or did they actually actively stop you from marrying as my mother did?
hunkalove · 61-69, M
@greenmountaingal I just wasn't interested in getting married. My father worked very hard at two jobs and obviously hated his life and everyone in it. I remember being very young and thinking if that's what it's like to be a father I never want to be one.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
To some degree i suppose.
Me struggling in middle-age and them struggling in old-age probably means we have more 'common enemies' these days than ever before.
somethingIsuppose · 31-35, F
Mothers an untreated schizophrenic and father is an abusive alchoholic.... sooo HELL NO
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@somethingIsuppose They say everyone provides an example for us--some good, some bad...
Fernie · F
They taught me EXACTLY what not to do
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Fernie My mother was a HUGE negative example.
Fernie · F
@greenmountaingal Exactly my experience!! Man...I am always stunned at the power of a parent to screw up a kid for life...leave us struggling to rid ourselves of the toxic crap they poured into us.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Thank you for my first laugh of the day!😅 My parents have been gone for a long time now. They were real characters, worthy of a movie, and sometimes I actually miss them. But, no, for the most part, they were [i]not[/i] a positive influence in my life.

For the details of my bizarre parents and my B movie life, you can read my Featured story.
aloysia · 36-40, F
My mother, for sure: she's the kindest person I know❤
My father??? Well,let's see the glass half full: I'm a pefectionist and a hardworking person because of the high expections he had of me(glass half empty: I will never be good enough)
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They are both deceased, however, I suppose they were a positive influence on me in the sense that they gave me examples of what I didn't want to be like...person, parent, spouse, friend, employee, etc. 😏
kodiac · 22-25, M
Don't remember them . But i guess dna does have some influence on who i am .
Fluffy407 · 41-45, F
PArents are fallible human beings. So, yes and no
LyricalOne · F
A very mixed bag of influence.
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
Lol, no, I'm not that dense.
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Yeah sure do x
Classified · M
Certainly 😀

 
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