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Would you marry someone average in bed?

As a single woman I thought this very thing. He better be good in bed or I’m not marrying him. Now being married there is so much more to marriage than just great sex. If all you have is great sex, but don’t get hugs, kisses, encouragement, support, help with the kids, the house, and finances....then he/she is a loser and the marriage is doomed.
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 yeah but great people can be good in bed too. Maybe my question should have been 'does your spouse need to be the full package? '
Of course, but lots of people put a lot of emphasis on sex...when in reality marriage is so much more than that. Don’t get me wrong there are those who are the whole package, but then there are those that are only good in bed. That gets annoying as a married couple. Lol@MushroomFaerie
Doubt that would work ... but, I will teach ... If they are a fast learn

* And no, guys I will not teach your wives ... that is your job.
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ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
If I like them as a person and fine them attractive, yeah why not?
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Someone can always improve on their bed skills but people I want to spend my life with are not easy to come by and if I find someone who makes me want to spend my life with him, I am not going to let something like that be a deal breaker.
@SW-User not all can improve, some people your body just is not that attracted to theirs sexually
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@MushroomFaerie Oh, if there is no attraction then that is a whole different thing. I have to be attracted to them, and then if their skills are not up to scratch, then that can be worked on.
WeighedDown · 36-40, M
Yea, sex is not the reason I would get married besides it's fun to bring the freak out in someone
WeighedDown · 36-40, M
@SW-User I'm freak enough for two.
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@WeighedDown mmmm ok
celine211 · 22-25, F
@WeighedDown 😂😂
NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
Their bed skills wouldn’t be what controls me heart. Being in love is what takes the bed to that soul level and nothing is better than that.
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
Sure, not like she has to do anything. Just being in there is enough for me to think she's amazing. ʕ ᵔᴥᵔʔ
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No I strive for excellent or above average
SoFine · 46-50, F
Kindness will outlast sex......
Gentlequill · 51-55, M
My wife did!
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purplepen · 51-55, F
I wouldn't know until I'd married them, and it wouldn't matter if they were a lovable teddy 🐻.
AyDiosMio · 26-30, M
No thanks. Life is too short for bad sex for the rest of your life
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If he is willing to make an effort at improving
StokedFox · 36-40, F
I wouldn't marry anyone
rckt148 · 61-69, M
if that is an issue
you missed the point
Some are unable to make love
do they not deserve love too ?
That is probably the only thing I did right
I still got left
its true you can't live off love alone or sex
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Not if he/she isn't willing to explore in bed.
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Average is acceptable marriage is not!
blazingrahul · 41-45, M
Does not matter if he she of nice soul

 
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