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Sending someone to court?

My friend talked to this guy for about a month and he offered to buy everything when they went out on dates. New Years Eve he bought a hotel room for him, her and her friends so they can Uber to NYE parties.

A couple days later she ended it with him and now he's harassing her, saying she's cold hearted and now she apparently owes him money. He wants to send her to court for "owing" him money but she never signed anything saying she has to pay him back.

He's the one who offered to pay, is it possible for him to win this case when there's no proof that said anything about her owing/paying him back all of a sudden?
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No, it would be seen as a gift. There’s no proof of him saying he loaned her the money and that she would have to pay him back he’s a fool for being so careless with his money 🤷🏽‍♀️

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No. Not a chance. He offered a gift. She accepted.
toddr13 · 46-50, M
He's just trying to rattle her. Payment for regular expenses when one is dating the other person are not grounds to sue for restitution when the relationship ends. It's not like he gave her a diamond ring in promise of marriage, in which case he would be entitled to its return. Without an agreement, he's out of luck.
LyricalOne · F
Not likely, if there was never any verbal agreement for her to pay. I'd call his bluff. Just tell her not to say anything about agreeing to pay him back in text or on tape though if she actually did agree. That's evidence he'd be able to use in court.
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
Damn the Bro put in some damn intense work and got nothing. Lmaoooo.

Idk. But he should just move on. It's all part of the game I guess.
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SaraxKay · 26-30, F
@SW-User I feel like he's bluffing because he's only doing this to see her again. He doesn't want to give up, so he's making stuff up
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firefall · 61-69, M
Legally he doesn't have a leg to stand on - but if he has a slick lawyer and she doesn't, there's a small risk of being manouevred verbally. If it's just small claims court, he'll have to flatout lie about what she promised, to get anywhere, in which case, it's a matter of who the judge finds credible, unfortunately.
Cajunfirefly · 41-45, F
He's at a loss.
DallasCowboysFan · 61-69, M
It sounds like he tried to be the 'big spender' to impress his friends and now the credit card bill came due and he realizes he was a bit careless. Your friend owes him nothing. Block his phone calls and ignore him.
SW-User
No. Not at all.
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
I hope this worked out well for your friend. I don't think she should have owed the guy anything. It all sounded like gifts to me.
Scubaguy027 · 46-50, M
Take it to Judge Judy
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