I got bitched at by my boyfriend's dad...
My boyfriend went to stay at his parents since Saturday. How to say this in short hmmm??? We had a conflict I been at wit's end for a few. And I agree o prob made a a much bigger ordeal out of something than should have.
I stop by to have a talk with him outside.. and he was pretty nasty would not listen. Then we went inside and I thought he would lighten his mood with his sis, mom and dad inside but no...I ended up leaving then going back twice cause I kept forgetting something, i didn't wanna inconvenience my bf again driving out there...the third time I went in his dad gets on my ass about how I am not gonna come to his house and do this...the boyfriend fed them a bunch of lies not all but most or shared his version and what he seen me as...and his sister was in on it and his mom was quiet throughout. It's hard to explain it all you would have to know how the over two and half years together were but even tho he got me crying and I couldn't even explain what their son told him was not how it was for me no one listened but I left utterly hurt...it did more than the bf already did the entire time together I was like wow... unbelievable the lies and distorted view he has when I always was upfront what was wrong. Then a sadness came over me
He has a drug problem going on 18 years as an addict and his parents know EVERYTHING I did for that man live with me for free helping money wise when he chose...not helping around house when he isn't working...a huge support system that encouraged rehab he went once and he never did this before ever...nailed him outta jail...paid for his phone cigarettes..just most everything...while I almost lost my house...wont help put house back together that we were gonna redo things to have a nice home..put up with the drug use and all that that involves...they acknowledged it but totally dismissed it as something awesome for him for his trying to be clean so sad because this is a huge reason he will never get better.
They just made him feel in the right for being an ass for something he chose to misunderstand me on and always chooses not to.
They didn't say one word to him while he was standing there like it was an intervention for me. Wow
I feel sad for this man...and he doesn't even know what just happened.... and the parents neither
I stop by to have a talk with him outside.. and he was pretty nasty would not listen. Then we went inside and I thought he would lighten his mood with his sis, mom and dad inside but no...I ended up leaving then going back twice cause I kept forgetting something, i didn't wanna inconvenience my bf again driving out there...the third time I went in his dad gets on my ass about how I am not gonna come to his house and do this...the boyfriend fed them a bunch of lies not all but most or shared his version and what he seen me as...and his sister was in on it and his mom was quiet throughout. It's hard to explain it all you would have to know how the over two and half years together were but even tho he got me crying and I couldn't even explain what their son told him was not how it was for me no one listened but I left utterly hurt...it did more than the bf already did the entire time together I was like wow... unbelievable the lies and distorted view he has when I always was upfront what was wrong. Then a sadness came over me
He has a drug problem going on 18 years as an addict and his parents know EVERYTHING I did for that man live with me for free helping money wise when he chose...not helping around house when he isn't working...a huge support system that encouraged rehab he went once and he never did this before ever...nailed him outta jail...paid for his phone cigarettes..just most everything...while I almost lost my house...wont help put house back together that we were gonna redo things to have a nice home..put up with the drug use and all that that involves...they acknowledged it but totally dismissed it as something awesome for him for his trying to be clean so sad because this is a huge reason he will never get better.
They just made him feel in the right for being an ass for something he chose to misunderstand me on and always chooses not to.
They didn't say one word to him while he was standing there like it was an intervention for me. Wow
I feel sad for this man...and he doesn't even know what just happened.... and the parents neither
46-50, F
