Being in your 20s is so confusing you're just not sure of anything you're just there

hi offingg
I agree of course as you are quite correct. However the thing is that in your twenties you think you should be sure of everything and think because you are not that it is your failing. However as you get into your 30's you realise it never was you that was the problem - it is just a confusing world and nobody is sure of anything. One reason for this error is adults tend to pretend it is not confusing - especially to themselves - and so you then have to either join them in pretending all is well and not confusing or you need to surf the confusion in awe.
Best wishes
I hope that helped.
:)

The twenties are all about figuring out who you are...ive spent the last decade figuring out who I am...maybe it is beyond that we are always changing and evolving but as I've grown I've definitely found out distinctly my likes and dislikes and what I've found acceptable or not in friends and partners

Yes it must be that.
But it begins to be confusing already with the age of 17

I agree. I'll be 23 in 3 days and I feel like I really need to get my shit together. But it's not that bad really.

[quote]after teenage years it just gets worse in your 20s [/quote]

Incredibly horribly worse.