why are people so judgemental...

If no one was judgmental, then what are norms and standards in society? What are morals even.

Every person is judgemental whether they like like it or not

As long as you and those close to you know who you are, that's all that matters. The bully is trying to break you down, because of their own insecurities.

Judgement is a survival mechanism. Either to gain solidarity of a specific group amd its resources and protection, or as a means to identify threats. It's also a method of pointing out undesireable qualities that people don't wish to gain the immortality gained through reproduction.

lmao everyone is judgmental.. especially if you go against the grain of something.. or try calling people out on their bs..

you got this, eeyore

A saying I like is like water off a ducks back don't let it phase you