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Would u marry someone who is in the army or military ?

I would not. I have nothing against the military or anything like that. I just don't think I would be comfortable being married to someone who serves or is in active duty especially if we had children. That is just too much of stress or a risk for me. Id be worried.
What about you. Would you marry someone in the military if you were single. How many of you here are married to someone in the service. 🙂
Salix75 · 46-50, F Best Comment
I imagine it's incredibly hard, but we don't usually get to choose who we fall in love with :)
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Salix75 True. 🙂

Eternity · 26-30, M
Hell naw. Hell to the naw naw. Hellllll naw.

The military is no place for relationships nor families. Fuckin toxic to that shit.

If you want to be a success in the military you must choose between that and a family life.

Straddle the fence and someone is gonna suffer. Its unavoidable.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Eternity For some it is hell. 🙂
Eternity · 26-30, M
@Zonuss oh trust me i know all too fucking well 😔.
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It is stressful to relationship. Months away on tours. Often not able to communicate... Not knowing if they're coming back.. those that make it work deserve a medal..
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Majorlatency I agree. Its a trying situation to be in.
@Zonuss Yes for both parties..
Deadcutie · 18-21, F
Hypothetically.. As long as they don’t have ptsd and prone to violence.. I’m not going to be a punching bag.. otherwise I don’t care if they served..
SW-User
hell no I’ve not waited just to marry someone who could die out there
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User Well said. 🙂
BlueRain · F
If they had good Heath Insurance.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@BlueRain Oh goodness. 🙂
Elessar · 26-30, M
I wouldn't marry. Military or not doesn't matter.
SW-User
No i'm not taking that risk.
MethDozer · M
I doubt I would be a able to tolerate the constant moving and having life for both of us dictated by their career. I live near a military base and see how the families are basically slaves to the service.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@MethDozer Me too.
MethDozer · M
@MethDozer So I guess I am in the same or similar boat as you. Nothing against the military. My hats off to those who can do it.

 
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