I don't deal with my so called " uppity" family. The garbage that I went through under these people was hell. I left home at an early age I hated them so much. The last time I spoke to my "family" resulted in me losing it on them. I really let them know how I felt about the way they treated me growing up and all the dirt they did that they didn't think I knew about. I cut my ties with my family after that day and it has been years since I've seen them. Believe me, I don't miss them.