what annoys me is gamer stereotypes... example if you chose a healer or tank or something and you're expected to do your thing...there are some gamers like me who like being defiant and have UNIQUE playstyles.
you don't bug other players to do what is expected of them...its annoying. if you want people to play the role then EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED... let others play Their Way at their own skill of uniqueness and unexpectedness
this message is for all those who blame a player for "not doing their job" right... stop blaming a mistake on the defiant players who want a unique non-conforming playstyle!!!