Are you slowly becoming hesitant to talk to Newbies on the site?

yes, unless they have posted some content. If they are new with no content posted, I do not engage, there is a 50/50 chance they post either fun content or diaper content

I am hesitant talking to most people

Yeah. Two people I really liked talking to that were new left after about a week. It sucks.

You look kinda new yourself. Should I be?

I rarely exchange comments. I have found - generally - that 75-89% are completely fake.