I have just gave up on a family member for being so inconsiderate of my brother. I only recently found out they were my aunt, but she new me since I was little. She decided to tell my brother the friend he had who died from a cop killing him while he was a kid was his friends fault. Even after we explained what happened. I don't belive she is family if she doesn't care about how people feel, especially about dead best friends. Anyone have stories of family they exiled from their life?