What about a man that isn't married? Doesn't have kids? No girlfriend either!! Yet, cooks for himself, cleans for himself, Washes his own clothes, takes care of the bills, fixes/maintains his older used, high mileage vehicles, as well as his cheap mobile home in the sticks. I don't go to bars, I don't drink and never smoke. I've been gainfully employed for 13 yrs plus straight working a minimum of 50 hours per week. Grant you I could buy a brand spank'n new truck if I wanted to - but why!? Nothing wrong with those old reliables selling cheap. Or finance a nice new home in some suburbia - but why? Save my money for retirement & live in a cheap used mobile home on some acres of land in the woods.