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Why do most on here resort to lying?

I have caught so many people in lies on here...and they are the ones that say they are honest and truthful!

The real liars here are the ones that say "I'M LEAVING!! I won't be back!!" Etc. And then they turn around and come back or make a new profile with a new name.

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Peaches · F

@Cthulhu: Yeah, because you can't remember all the lies you told but you'll always remember the truth!👍🏼😏

Asm0deus · F

@Peaches: Exactly. Truth is better than a sugar coated lie.

Peaches · F

@Cthulhu: Oh yes, I agree.😊

JarJarBoom · 41-45, F

No seriously, i was the 5th Beatle

Asm0deus · F

@JarJarBoom: Haha!

Raffie · 61-69, F

@JarJarBoom: yes, I remember you! I wondered what happened to you...lol

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Raffie · 61-69, F

@seeandhear: I rather not say anything, if I must lie to make myself feel important.

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DancingStarGoddess ·

i'm annoyingly honest, and most people think i'm lying. i learned what lying can do, and also what caring what people think can do as well. i figure if i just toss it all out there, whomever is still cool, will stay, the rest will put their nose in the air and walk away out of shock or disgust or whatever.

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DancingStarGoddess ·

@Raffie: in some ways, but many hate that much up front honesty, it's not tactless, but still, i understand people want a little sugar onit, you know? i don't know how to sugar it. lol

Raffie · 61-69, F

@DancingStarGoddess: make it bitter, many don't understand how lying hurts others who truly believe their lie.

DancingStarGoddess ·

@Raffie: never bitter, it's not my nature, and pointless imo. i just call it how i see it. it's easier to receive it or learn from it if they can udnerstand the message. otherwise they lock up and hear nothing. either way, lots of people are comforted by their lies, and that's fine, as it's not harming me,i'm not their keeper and not trying to involve myself directly intheir lives. but for their own sakes, they should release someofit, it certainly feels better.

SagePoet

It's easy for people to lie online as there is no accountability and no one is held to what they say. This is unfortunate as people wind up believing the lies and many get hurt. To the ones that lie, this is just a game and they just don't care. And this is quite sad.

BemyValentine · F

I am not here or anywhere about lying. What I you see is what you get...the truth. The truth I live by. If people don't believe me, that's them. Because lying to someone is lying to yourself and I am not into that junk. Thanks for sharing. Good one! hugs.🤗

FlKuntryBoy · 41-45, M

I believe people lie out of fear! Fear of the consequences of being vulnerable, and transparent. Just my thoughts...

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in10RjFox · M

@Raffie: one shouldn't take things as literal truth but give room for some portrayal ..

Raffie · 61-69, F

@in10RjFox: embellishment?

in10RjFox · M

@Raffie: hahaha .. perfect word .. kids never want to portray themselves as naive ..

ThatOneMan

I'm not dishonest, I just never get much opportunity to be open and genuine

Raffie · 61-69, F

@Helioskull: you must be a rare one!

ThatOneMan

@Raffie: Hardly, I'm not rare, nor am I a prize, I'm just a person who cares

Peaches · F

Well that's the thing with being able to hide on line.😏You can make your self out to be who and what ever ya want...unfortunately.😐

Subsumedpat · 36-40, M

I thinks sometimes they are being what they are not allowed to be.

Raffie · 61-69, F

@Subsumedpat: interesting thought!

Subsumedpat · 36-40, M

@Raffie: If you have a duality hiding thoughts you end up in a catch 22 situation where you are always lying to someone because you can only be one person at a time.

Finerthings · 56-60, M

You haven't caught me yet. Lol

Raffie · 61-69, F

@finerthings: hhhhhmmmmmmm..that's what you think!.. lol

JustAHappyPerson · 31-35, M

Really !
But, how did you spot them ?

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MistahBuziness · 36-40, M

we're all fakes.

Raffie · 61-69, F

@NunyaBuziness: perhaps there is much truth in that statement!

in10RjFox · M

Most just answer the question in a smart way .. it's best not to ask questions or in a manner that would make them lie ..

Raffie · 61-69, F

@in10RjFox: so in avoiding the truth of their lies, the deception remains hidden?

in10RjFox · M

Deception is too strong a word that requires a master plan .. which none have time for to conspire .. like while playing cards they just wanna play the best one..

I don't let myself to be deceived for it means I have let myself to be deceived.

Uncfred · 61-69, M

Perhaps the license to fantasize is too much for some? Perhaps this is the one place where we can tell the brutal truth? Perhaps.....

JustAHappyPerson · 31-35, M

Just avoid them. These kinds of people are everywhere. Treat them as you treat them in your life.

SW-User

I guess if you have to constantly point out you are honest, you probably ain't.

JohnnySpot · 56-60, M

I am just an ignorant savage.

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