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PeanutsauntieP1982 · 41-45, F
I take the loss of any friend hard. About ten years ago, I lost a friend with agoraphobia. He and I emailed multiple times a day, and when he stopped emailing me, I knew something was terribly wrong. A few weeks later his son emails me from his dads' email and tells me his father has passed away. I was devastated to hear what happened, and I still miss him. He was an interesting fellow.
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yeah know that feeling.. i lost someone i use to talk to everyday and then she pushed me away because of finding out she fools around with insane amount of men.. since i wasnt a fuckboy she treated me like trash over knowing her lifestyle its like someone you had a lot in common with and was always nice with suddenly all you get is the devil. you miss the people that you spend time and find a connection with.
It depends on why they're being lost. Usually losing someone leaves me feeling down for a while.
But, losing someone because they slipped and let their true colors slip through the pretty front they put up leaves me angry.
But, losing someone because they slipped and let their true colors slip through the pretty front they put up leaves me angry.
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ive experienced the second one a lot.. its like why and why treat me that way when ive always been nice to them. why act all petty and cruel.
Exactly. That sting takes a while to subside.
SailorMarz · F
I don't take it hard. Because tbh i expect that lol.
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lol whats different
SailorMarz · F
@theowl: if i leave without warning its usually because i don't think i'll be missed? Lol. But i know you care..so ill let you know. & also let you know ill be back. & we'll keep in touch !
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oh sweet... 🙃
Justpeaceandlove · 61-69, F
I take it like its my fault. I know it isn't but that's how it feels.
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I know nothing is permanent, everything changes and sometimes people abandon you for no good reason. I make sure I don't get attached to anyone. That works for me. Even if I get attached, I have a good recovery mechanism.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Horribly. It happened in August.
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yeah that sucks. i know a guy that i worked with that died last friday in an auto accident still cant believe it.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Oh, sorry. I hope he has a peaceful funeral.
toddr13 · 46-50, M
@theowl: So sorry to hear of your recent loss of a co-worker. It's never easy, but more so when it is a shock.
toddr13 · 46-50, M
I tend to be depressed if I lose a friend, and take it very seriously.
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pretty hard. I stay bitter.
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same here. i tend to care for people a lot.
LachrymoseLamer · 51-55, M
Very hard.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Very.
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Lose as in death...awful. Lose as in connect with one another, oh well. There's way too many ppl online and in the world to waste my time wondering why... I would just move forward.