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Why do people wait for you to do something before they try it?

I often feel like a guinea pig.
As I mentioned before I've been asking my friend for nearly two years to go to pole dancing lessons with me because we watched a girl on TV do it once, we we're both in awe of her and buzzing to do it.
So on her request I looked up place and prices,sent the info and she kept saying she'd check it out and wanted to go. But never did. I finally went. Now she's asking me all the kind of questions she could ask an instructor. I guess to decide if she wants to go. So I said she should go to a branch near her, I must admit I made a friend or two and I'd rather not be her crotch. Especially as she wasn't prepared to support me.
Sick of being a friend to those that aren't to me.
There are more followers in this world then there're leaders. Be that leader.

I remeber watching a study on this. As an example. A dozen people were in a waiting room. (They had been called in to do a study but weren't told what exactly). A waist paper basket was lit on fire. Most people just sat there looking at each other until one person gets up and leaves.
You'll notice at parties no one wants to be the first to leave.

There are leaders, but there are far more followers. It's evolutionary.
A lot of shy and timid people out there and some of them want to play games so they don't appear shy and timid. Just grab them by the hand and go!@Justlilyg:
Peppa · 31-35, F
@JoanieNewHampshire: haha, you should have seen Me, ibe never been so nervous in all my life. And that's part of the reason I wanted to go. I'm always so shy I feel more confident with a friend then when I relax I can talk to others. Maybe I come across more confident then I actually am.
I'm the same way. Much more confident when a have a wing woman with me. It's more fun anyway. Those times where I was brave enough to venture out on my own to do things I did end up meeting very nice people's.@Justlilyg:
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I agree and others sometimes are put in harms why when an ego is bigger then their courage. @boldtimer:
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