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Is your kindness and common courtesy ever mistaken for interest of a different kind?

How often do people think you're coming on to them when you're just being friendly?
SW-User
Yes but not really coming on to them more just being a decent human being makes them think I want them romantically. Kindness does not equal I want to jump your bones. Although it does make me wonder if people are so used to being treated unkindly that they see any sort of kindness as more. That is a sad state of affairs.
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
[quote]Although it does make me wonder if people are so used to being treated unkindly that they see any sort of kindness as more.[/quote]

You might be on to something there...
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
[c=#4C0073]Yes, I'm a bubbly, effervescent type persona in the work place because I don't want to be seen as the typical angry chocolate woman stereotype. You would be shocked how many guys take my over-the-top, fake, happy, tomfoolery as I want your Johnson. I've had to set more than a couple of them straight.[/c]
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
Are you flirting with me?


LOL
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
😂@LucyFuhr: Sorry Charlie, but I don't do chicas
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Not too often actually. I'm not overly friendly to new people.
It happens to me a lot
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
😕😂 who are you trying to fool? Surely not moi?
@VioletRayne: like you can be fooled 😋
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
[c=#4C0073]Its possible. It's happened once.[/c]@Nunlover:
No one has ever out and out said it, but I can see how the way I talk to people could be misunderstood as romantic interest and it's something I'm conscious of.
Kingfish · 31-35, M
I avoid this common mistake by being rude and unlikable.
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
Some people mistake that sort of stuff for flirtatious behavior too too LOL
Sharon4now · M
strangers jump to conclusions when i lick their neck
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
What's a little lick between strangers, right?
JupiterDreams · 31-35
A few times it has been...
Some guys have accused me of flirting. :/
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
Men (and women) without any real "flirtsperience" mistake [b]everything[/b] for flirting LOL
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
The letter by my age should tell you my answer.
Spitbak · 56-60, M
😔It seems so quite too often!

 
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