Yesterday my boyfriend said he wants to smoke weed with me someday and I was like okay. I sometimes feel like he thinks im lying about smoking because he calls other people out on smoking. Well today I went to the dentist and she told me I have to stop smoking because its messing with my teeth and gums very badly. Should I smoke with him once and get it over with or should I stop completely? Im not addicted I just dont want him to think im backing out
Don't worry about what he thinks and don't be defensive about it. You don't even need to give him [i]any[/i] explanation. The less you explain, the less he will pressure you. Just say you've changed your mind. If you feel you must give an explanation, say, "Bad for my teeth, talked to the dentist about it." Then do not discuss it further. If he keeps on trying to discuss it or tries to make you defensive, ask him, "Why is this such a big deal for you anyway? Why does it matter?" Then let [i]him[/i] explain. You have a right to do what you think best. Stick to it. Remember, any guy who gives you trouble over a decision like this is not worth a lot of time.
