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Ladies: Have you been body shamed by guys?

I have and it really hurt. One time when my best friend and I were freshman in high school, we’re sitting at a table were some guys were talking but we didn’t sit near them. Two of the guys we knew and they what does special kind a girls day like I want to say that the kind of girl that he’ll never date a skinny one because skinny girls have nothing to offer, their gross looking and no cushion for the pushin! And the other one says no wonder thicker girls are bigger girls get boyfriends.
They knew we were sitting right there and it really hurt our feelings. We were both skinny. I was 5’0 and 93lbs.

We’re slim now but filled out. I’m now 5’2 and 114lbs. They didn’t even realize how much that hurt our feelings. We were sitting RIGHT THERE.
One guy told me would date me if I was thicker. Guys prefer girls with a figure. No man wants a skinny ass woman.
I’ve always envied the bigger girls. I often wish I had curves and a thicker body. I learn to except myself but I still wish I was thicker. Bigger girls have no idea how lucky they are!
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
Sorry to hear you went through this and no I have never been body shamed.I'm tall.and strong.At 14 I was 6'2" tall with a very nicely developing big breasted figure.One time at high school this 17 year old guy asked 14 year old me if I was pregnant as well because I was walking around with my feet bare and wearing shorts.I had an IDGAF attitude.This led to us fighting it out behind the seats in the gym during a basketball game.I beat him in front of our friends leaving him with 2 broken ribs and unconscious.
NotJamieM · 46-50, M
No matter what body size or shape someone is, there will be someone who has derogatory things to say. Personally I like to get to know the girl, and let her personality dictate my thoughts on her (it's funny how "nice person" and "fun to be with" translate into "pretty", lol). The "hottest" girl I ever dated was also the most obnoxious, and it didn't last long...
Coldplay · 56-60, M
This is bullshit. We aren't necessarily prizes either. It would crush me to hurt a woman's feelings by saying something like that.
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@Coldplay yeah I’m not saying all guys are like that. I was just sharing my story from my experience.
Coldplay · 56-60, M
@ElizabethBabe1994 I didn’t think you were sayin all men.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Slender is better. Slender women age much better too. Those thick girls turn into fat women.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
@ElizabethBabe1994 Well that's perfect!
@ElizabethBabe1994 see!

Totally desirable.

Don't let some sad ass of a guy make you feel less . @HoraceGreenley thinks you're gorgeous...as I bet many other would 😊
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
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Thats just two peoples opinion
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