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Have you ever married someone solely by force?

I was compelled to marry someone I detested. Certainly not by my parents, but rather by him. He blackmailed me until I agreed to be in a relationship with him. Each time I attempted to flee, he used the same blackmail tactics to keep me in place. I despise him tremendously. When he attempts to kiss me, I recoil; when I look at him, I feel sick to my stomach. Occasionally, he would cry in order to make me feel sorry for him; it's pitiful. My life is a complete mess; I went from being prosperous and wealthy to marrying a slacker who does absolutely nothing. I believe I will eventually admit to my family that this relationship is unhealthy; I resent him and do the exact opposite of everything he suggests. He is and will always be my primary adversary.
Let's just say... I believed that my marriage was the lesser of two evils at the time - though, given how things are sixteen years later... I wonder which one really was the worst of the two???
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Read. This book:
[i]The Gift of Fear[/i]
by Gavin DeBecker

There is a good chapter in it about how to handle a blackmailer.
EmilyEdith · 56-60, F
This is horrible. You sound done with him. You can guess what I'm going to say
Cofuzion · F
@EmilyEdith I've had enough.
Im so sorry this hsd happened to you 😐💔 🌷
Cofuzion · F
Thank you. Its unfortunate that the only outlet I have is through anonymously writing on this platform. I am responsible for putting myself in this situation, and only I am capable of resolving it.
@Cofuzion there are people who care here though. I will be on of them ❤
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
Nope.. single and happy.. no kids.. i love my time..
ncgremlin · 56-60, M
I'm so sorry about your situation.
Bigbass77 · M
What a pos to do something like that
LoveTriumphsOverHate · 36-40, M
What secret possibly could have been so bad that you would marry someone you hate to conceal? You murdered someone?
Cofuzion · F
No, I didn't murder anyone. I didn't steal anything from anyone either. @LoveTriumphsOverHate
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
Im sorry. Maybe im worth blackmail.. u should find some leverage on him and grind his sole to hell
Cofuzion · F
@Chelsiegirl Thats just it, his past is not as colourful as mine.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
No. I would have let the chips fall where they may before I kowtow to blackmail. Sorry that happened to you.
JP1119 · 36-40, M
You’re [i]still[/i] married to him?
Tukudo · 41-45, M
Why did you accept?🤔

 
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