BlueVeins · 22-25
bcuz you base your self esteem in part on other people's opinions of you
summersong · F
Because it feels good to be liked and it can be hard to not fit in, even with people who don’t deserve you.
lilangel · 26-30, F
@summersong the thing is i know they don’t deserve me but i let their views affect how i feel about myself sometimes and I’m confused about it
summersong · F
@lilangel It’s hard sometimes to keep others’ opinions from hitting you that way. Even if you know they’re wrong. I think it takes time to learn how to not let it get to you.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Because you just want to fit in
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Flenflyys Your username is awesome after you told me what it means lol
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
@SinlessOnslaught thank you
And I notice this is true because your posts are literally infiltrated with pictures and one where you wanted to lose weight. I notice someone telling you to work on your tone or something. Why do you care so much about what other people think. You don’t need other people’s validations to feel good, you don’t need to base your worth on other people

SW-User
Don’t know but don’t act desperate because that is a turn off for anyone! 🙂
lilangel · 26-30, F
@SW-User agreed. I’m trying to get it together

SW-User
@lilangel Sweetie, I wasn’t saying you acted desperate, just saying don’t... 🤗
lilangel · 26-30, F
@SW-User I know you weren’t saying that

SW-User
People can be so tricky
Why do you care so much about other people’s validations?
DaveStevenson · M
I'll accept you as you are.
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
All you have to do is be yourself. You shouldn't care what other people you hardly are close with think of you.
SinlessOnslaught · M
I hope I make you feel accepted 🥺💛
Welcome to my world
Paintedfox · 36-40, F
Something hurt you when you were younger.
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
They’re opinion of you doesn’t matter. Only yours does.
PrivateHell · M
Acceptance and validation are powerful drugs
FeelingItAll · 41-45, M
it's important to you now, but one day, you'll get tired of the bullshit and it won't bother you anymore. just give it time