Should I listen to my dad?

He refuses to bail me out financially anymore and the car he bought me was the last big purchase or so he says. Anyway when he called on Thanksgiving he lectured me about living a fantasy life and needing to live within my means. He seems to think that if I moved to another state where the cost of living wasn't so high I would be better off.

According to him I don't make awful money but I would get more for my buck if I transferred and moved states. That way whatever I save on living costs I can use to pay debts. He also got on me about partying and drug usage again .