if you were meeting someone for the first time and they have not showed up how long should you wait before you leave?

This is a female , not a male date....
Edit: *Its an outing with a female, im not dating anyone...*
It's been 15 minutes. I called and she said she hasn't left home yet because her husband went to the gym after work instead of home to watch the kids. Then she said once he DOES get home, it'll be about 20 minutes before she can get here.

We 'okay'd' this hours ago...
And on top of it all, I have slight social anxiety, and this place is packed. I'm not gonna sit here all lonely for nearly an hour

I'm going home.

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FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M

Good call, she's training you from day 1 to wait on her and hold her purse and stuff.

Asm0deus · F

lmao flashbacks?? 😂😂@FloorGenAdm

curiosi · 61-69, F

I'd leave. Understandable that she ran into a problem. You had to call her and add to that you are there not like you could have left at a later time if she had informed you.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@curiosi totally. I started to call her before i left but again, we okayed it hours ago.

TyriHansen · 70-79, M

She should have called you first instead of waiting for you to call. She owes you profuse apologies. She should be on her knees in expensive silk stockings begging your forgiveness. NOW. RIGHT AWAY. Jeepers.

Asm0deus · F

Damn that sucks. Sorry to hear that 😕

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@Asm0deus it's ok. I honestly wanted to cancel on her but I went on. Now I'm home about to take a bubble bath 🛁

Asm0deus · F

Enjoy 😊 @iamnikki

eMortal · M

Yeah just go home. Platonic or romantic date, it doesn't matter. The thing with dating married people is you don't choose when you guys meet. You have to take what they give you. They set all the terms. It's fucked up but it's the price to pay.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@eMortal im not dating a married person. I worded it poorly

eMortal · M

@iamnikki it's doesn't matter. Even if it's just friend, you guys will hangout only when she wants and can.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@eMortal well you used the word 'dating' so i was clearing that up

Notmesam

Give her 1/2an hour

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

I’d leave too

MrMonnyPenny · 22-25, M

Wait so you were meant to be on a date with her?

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@MrMonnyPenny nope. Meeting a female for an outing. Not a male, for a date. Thats how i meant the above sentence..

MrMonnyPenny · 22-25, M

Just to be clear this is like friends meeting up? Because when I read it, it sounded like “I’m going on a date, not with a guy but with a girl”. Which seemed kind of wrong because you mentioned a family, husband etc. @iamnikki

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@MrMonnyPenny exactly. it was poorly worded.

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