Ladies that are the only female on the house, how did you coop with living with only MEN?

I live with my dad, two older brothers and two of my make cousins. Sometimes they'll have their friends over. Too much men.
Every since my mom left, everything changed. It isn't fair. My mom is barely around and isn't even interested in having a mother/daughter relationship.
My aunt stepped in and help me with girl things, my first period and always take me out places since my mom isn't around. I appreciate it all but she isn't my mother and never will be. Anyways how did you coop?