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Things I learned this year personal and otherwise

1. Michael Jackson is more loved than Ophra
2. I am 💯 cutting out the majority of my family and never looking back
3. A lot of people are just disappointing. A lot of these professionals hide behind their suits and degrees yet they might as well be 3 year old children pretending to be all that .
4. It is true what they say , there are indeed more bad people in the world than good
5. I learned that I would do anything and everything there is no line I won’t cross

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SaulGoodman · 26-30, M

Good for you on number two. My family's got me fucked in the head

Pureblossom · 22-25, F

@SaulGoodman toxic / dysfunctional both ?

SaulGoodman · 26-30, M

@Pureblossom hahaha... ummm. Hmmm... okay so one of my brothers tried to kill me with a gun. One of my brothers is facing life for allegedly raping a cousin but he didn't rape my cousin... a different cousin raped my cousin. My dad is a drug addict. I am as well sometimes. My sister got raped by my OTHER cousin.ummmmm... my mom beat the shit out of me but she's dead now . I could go on lol

Pureblossom · 22-25, F

@SaulGoodman damn . You could make a lot if you wrote a book 😂

I have one question did you kill her for beating you ? Jk jk

SaulGoodman · 26-30, M

@Pureblossom lol nah.. we would get into fist fights .. she wasn't a normal type of bitch. And nah lol... my life is not interesting

Mindful · 56-60, F

You think your life is not interesting because it’s your “normal” if you could write about it well, using the “reasoning” method it would be interesting. But the best reason to write is to better understand yourself and for self therapy.when you are able to start a new job, you will be able to step into a new normal. Don’t feel sorry for anyone who repeats bad behavior more than twice. If it’s physical abuse an instant rejection and walk out. It’s best to let them know that up front and stick to it. NO EXCUSES including alcohol and drugs. Don’t feel sorry for yourself. But get up and try again.@SaulGoodman

SaulGoodman · 26-30, M

@Mindful good advice. Thank you very much.

Mindful · 56-60, F

Life is simple if you make decision based on the out come you hope for and want. When someone such as yourself has NOT been treated with respect and love (probably because the parents weren’t either, didn’t know any better etc) You HAVE to rescue yourself.Not fair, but stop living in shock and sink or swim! Life is simple. Peoples decisions and emotions make it complicated. Now is not the time to feel. It’s time to act with hope for your future and surround yourself with as many healthy people as you can to help you stay afloat. Do NOT feel sorry until you are healthy and able to help others... on crumb at a time so that you don’t put yourself in a drowning situation. @SaulGoodman

SaulGoodman · 26-30, M

@Mindful you're right. Its kinda a situation where I gotta decide what I even want

Mindful · 56-60, F

That’s the most exciting part of life... realizing you can control what YOU do... and it begins with small steps...(the only big steps could be abandoning sick people in your family) and making sure good ones don’t make “excuses” just healthy decision after healthy decision day after day. I truly wish you the best! You’ll be amazed at how simple and peaceful life can be when you weed out negative people. You might even decide to be a “suit “ that acts like a grown up instead of a child. It would be a long tough but interesting journey.@SaulGoodman